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This is a common experience that I'm sure you've experienced one time or another. You become excited about a new project or endeavor, take a few steps towards completing it and then inadvertently let your ego take over. You can very quickly find yourself spiraling down into doubt and self-sabotage. Your progress comes to a screeching halt and you put another checkmark on your mental list of "failures."
So what is the ego anyways and why does it cause so much frustration?
There are many definitions of ego from the metaphysical and psychological communities each with its own solution on how to best deal with it. After many years of exploring the realm of the ego I have come to think of it as the part of your consciousness that creates your individuality. Essentially the ego gives you a separate and unique identity from other beings in the Universe.
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When the narrow self is engaged with judging, categorizing, resisting and stomping its feet, you always have the power of choice to gently shift into your expanded self.
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